Stylish Valentine's Day Gifts for Lesbians

- Style Grrl

It's always a dilemma figuring out what to get your girlfriend for Valentine's Day. My girl and I usually don't exchange gifts because we believe in making every day Valentine's Day. OK, you can say it. PUL-EASE! Yeah that's really cheesy, but that's our motto. We are always doing sweet things for each other like writing notes or cards. Valentine's Day is just one of those commercialized holidays that ends up making those who aren't in relationships feel really bad.

If you are in a relationship and you do the gift thing for V-day or if you just want to get something for someone special, I have some ideas. First I will give you some style items since that's what this posting is supposed to be about. Then I will give you some ideas that won't cost you a dime (probably best in these economic times).


1. Cufflinks. I started getting my partner these as gifts and she loves them. It adds a touch of bling to any outfit. Cufflinks.com has an awesome selection. They even have cufflinks specific to V-day.

2. Ties. I love ties. I think they look hot on women. Skinny ties work best. If your girl is up for tying one on, then check out ties.com. I particularly like their new line from Ed Hardy, tattoo artist. If she has a sense of humor, you might like this one, called "Love Kills Slowly".

3. Jewelry: What woman doesn't like jewelry? Why not get her something really unique like a necklace from Pyrhha? My partner got me one of these necklaces for my 30th birthday and it is one my most favorite things that I own. They are made of wax seals and each seal has it's own symbolic meaning. Check out the love seals for a piece that she'll brag about to her friends.

4. Undies: If you're like me and you hate walking into a Victoria Secret, then check out American Apparel. I love their line of cotton spandex jersey boy briefs. Very sexy. Get your lady friend a pair of these and you'll be sure to enjoy a proper V-day.

Now for the free stuff. OK, it may not be completely free but it will cost you less.

1. Picnic: You're probably thinking, "Are you crazy? It's the middle of winter!" I'm not talking about a picnic outdoors, silly, but one right in your living room. All you need is a blanket, a bottle of wine, cheese, baguette, maybe some olives. Put on some French jazz music and you'll transport your sweetie to a lovely garden in Paris.

2. Scavenger Hunt: No these are not just for kids. It's actually a lot of fun. Write down some clues on small pieces of paper and hide them around your house. Make the clues pertain to her or the two of you, like, "Go to the place where we like to cuddle and watch movies". Have the last clue lead to something special like a card from you or even better, you!

3. Make something: Come on you creative souls out there. I know you have it in you. When you were a kid, didn't you make things at school, bring it home, and give it to your mom? I'm sure she treasured those things much more than when you bought her a gift from a store. Your partner will feel the same way. I love when mine makes me a card. It's from the heart and way better than anything Hallmark could think of.

Those are just a few ideas to get your wheels turning. I'm sure anything you do for that special person in your life will make her happy unless she's a narcissist and nothing makes her happy. Then you should dump her and find someone who appreciates your romantic side. Because, you know you will have found your soul mate when every day does feel like Valentine's Day.

Lesbian Gift Ideas for the Holiday Season

Santa wants to know… have you been naughty or nice this year?

Either way, the holidays are just around the corner and with the economy in shambles, gifting has become a creative endeavor of thriftiness. If looking for some frugal but imaginative gift ideas for the fabulous lesbian in your life than you’ve come to the right place. Whether the gifts are for your bff, your partner, your “roommate” or that cutie you’ve been flirting with from Craigslist, I’ve come up with some great Sappho-friendly gift ideas that won’t leave your bank account with a case of the holiday blues.


1. Make your own personalized lesbian calendar courtesy of CafePress.com.
What gift could be more thoughtful than a calendar filled with special moments? Imagine creating your own very own custom calendar chock full of your favorite photography, own graphic-inspired artwork or any other sentimental images you can think of. Just sign-up (for free), open your own shop and check out their helpful tutorials. When you’re done with your creation, you just buy your custom-made calendar from your new shop… at cost!

2. Homemade Jewerly
I know what you’re thinking, you’re not a jeweler. Well, neither am I. That doesn’t mean you can’t make chic and funky bracelets and necklaces for that special someone on your holiday list. You can easily stock-up on affordable beads and crystals at any craft store for a fraction of the cost of getting one pre-made. Feeling extra gay? Go for the assorted rainbow colors and show your true holiday pride. For some great how-to videos on jewelry making and other ideas, go here.

3. Rescue a cat or dog
The way to any lesbians heart is through her… pets. If that special someone has room in their home for one more kitty or puppy, you might want to consider adopting a shelter animal. What is more adorable than a sweet little kitten wrapped in a red and green bow under the Christmas tree? Well, maybe two kittens wrapped in bows but let’s not push our luck here. For a small fee, you can give an animal a second chance at life and give a really thoughtful gift, too. Visit your local shelter for details.

4. Hanukkah, Lesbian-Style
There are 8 days in Hanukkah and 4 discs in the L Word Season 5 DVD set. Why not give the gift that keeps on giving? Give an entire season of L Word deliciousness spread out over 8 days by giving one DVD from the set every other day until the holiday is over. Enjoy those latkes and dreidel games with some L word love thrown into the mix.

Other cool lesbian gifts that won’t break the bank
Tuxedo T-Shirts and Accessories
2009 Women Artists Datebook
HRC Partner Pendant
G-Spot Explorer Kit
Subscription to Curve Magazine
My Girlfriend’s Hotter Than Yours apparel
Name a star after her!
Send her a message in a bottle