Showing posts with label Proposition 8. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Proposition 8. Show all posts

12/9/08

Stoller: Proposition 8 and California's Festering Corrupt Democratic Consulting Class

cross-posted with permission of the author; pictures added by Lesbiatopia

Ed. note: This post by Matt Stoller gets it brilliantly correct. I urge you all to follow the OpenLeft blog as I do for truly thoughtful political journalism. I am a lifelong Democrat and current member of the Stonewall Young Democrats Executive Committee, and I think we rightly need to take a critical look at ourselves; this is a good start. -Ed


by: Matt Stoller

Rolling Stone's Tim Dickinson has an interesting article on the campaign against Proposition eight in California, and what they did wrong. What's interesting about the post-mortems, though widely known, is how little scrutiny the anti-prop 8 leaders have actually gotten. Dickinson's article is useful to a point in that he got five people to go on the record with what the group did wrong, but most of his piece is framed by sniping from anonymous top level Democratic consultants and strategists towards the (mostly) unnamed leadership of the No on Proposition 8 forces.
According to veteran political observers, the No on Prop 8 effort was slow to raise money, ran weak and confusing ads, and failed to put together a grass-roots operation to get out the vote....

"This was political malpractice," says a Democratic consultant who operates at the highest level of California politics. "They fucked this up, and it was painful to watch. They shouldn't be allowed to pawn this off on the Mormons or anyone else. They snatched defeat from the jaws of victory, and now hundreds of thousands of gay couples are going to pay the price."

"They had no ground game," says a leading Democratic consultant. "They thought they could win this thing by slapping some ads together. It was the height of naiveté."....

"The ad was a huge fucking mistake," says a top Democratic campaign strategist. "Any objective consultant who has done any research on this issue will tell you that the struggle for marriage equality is not accepted by minority communities to be equivalent to the civil rights movement. In fact, it pisses minorities off."...
What is so frightening to 'top' Democratic consultants in California that they can't discuss the reasons the campaign structure dithered and failed using their own names? Just what are they afraid of? Could it be that the real story here is damning to the entire Democratic California political consulting class? Perhaps.

Let me add what I know to the story. No on Prop 8 was run by an unwieldy bureaucratic committee that rejected help from most quarters and organized a strategy to pretend like hiding from homosexuality and Obama's opposition to gay marriage would work. The initial campaign leaders basically thought that the pollling data showed they were going to win, were completely out-organized by Mormons, had a website "someone would've been proud of in 1996", rejected most offers to help, and finally, six weeks before the election, ceded control to prominent and effective gay rights leader Patrick Guerriero and a team of volunteers, who took control and attempted (successfully) to turn a route into a narrow loss. I remember when the distress call went out about Prop 8, and cash started pouring in (not just through their website designed by volunteers from Google, but also through Actblue, which had Prop 8 as their top donor item for weeks); we added Prop 8 to our Better Democrats page, and Markos raised hundreds of thousands for this cause. There's no way to tell what happened, but it seems fairly reasonable to assume that the leadership transition worked and the Guerriero was able to at least narrow the margin to where it ended up in November.

That said, this was too little too late. You can't really run a multi-million dollar campaign like this in six weeks, so the framing and tone was set by the executive committee, which refused to make decisions for fear of offending blocks of voters. This was a centrist cautious campaign similar to John Kerry in 2004. Campaigns like this are completely predictable, it's how Democrats have worked for decades, and though the Obama campaign provides a nice reminder of how far the party has come in just a few years, the progress is obviously uneven.

California is especially bad, because it's an expensive state and TV is where the consulting money is made. While you wouldn't notice it on a national level because California always goes for the Democratic Presidential nominee, 'top' California Democratic consultants have a history of this kind of nonsense. Consider their recent legacy of defeats: Gray Davis's recall in the face of a fiscal crisis orchestrated by conservative interests who helped Enron steal much of California's budget through price fixing, the embarrassing campaign to oppose Arnold Schwarzenegger for reelection by Phil Angelides who not only ran a horrific campaign but was repeatedly sabotaged by insider California consultants and his primary opponent Steve Westly, and the overfunded losing campaign to pass Proposition 87 to increase the use of alternative fuels with an oil tax in 2006. These weren't just awful campaigns, they were embarrassingly awful, with money going to fill the coffers of the consultants who preached TV TV TV and failed to do any significant field, internet work, or basic outreach to different constituencies. These campaigns shared the standard characteristics of the No on Prop 8 campaign; entirely TV dependent, passively messaged, no field, hostile treatment towards possible allies, and anonymous sniping from other consultants not cut in on the cash.

I don't see how Prop 8 was any different. Geoff Kor, the head of the executive committee, hired Dewey Square principal Steve Smith to run the campaign. In his article, Dickinson misses Smith's role, and misses that Smith, while nominally running Prop Eight until late in the game, was also working on the campaign against an anti-abortion proposition (prop 4) at the same time. Smith was clearly overworked and took on too much responsibility, which is probably why the more labor intensive activists, such as field and web outreach, were marginalized in favor of simpler TV buys. Dewey Square, a field oriented Democratic political consulting group run by Michael Whouley that at various points had employed three Presidential campaign managers from 2004 (Gephardt, Lieberman, and Edwards), itself is ensconced in a profitable racket to suck up corporate money by opposing policies like net neutrality while running these pro-Democratic campaigns on the side.

What makes this so galling is that it's quite obvious that the people who ran this campaign learned nothing and are simply incapable of effective advocacy for progressive causes. What this California consulting racket wins they win by accident. For instance, after the campaign, Smith diagnoses the primary problem as insufficient resources to get up on TV, and then pleads with the gay community not to target the Mormon church.
"It's hard not to act out, but I'm telling you, don't act out. The spray paint on the Mormon Church, that hurts us. Any violence, that hurts us."
Framing protests towards the Mormon Church as 'violent' is sure helpful, now isn't it? I can literally smell the Bob Shrum on this statement, both the inappropriate attempts at leadership (who the fuck is Smith to tell people he betrayed by doing a bad job what to do) and the reluctance to demonize and personalize the fight against those with different values. Smith also argues that the group should have released its polling numbers and done outreach to allied groups earlier: "The community woke up. We should've done that earlier. It felt bizarre to do it, but it worked." Smith is saying that it it 'felt bizarre' to be honest and open with allies, and then says like the community of allies was 'asleep', as if they weren't dormant because Smith had refused to correct the misimpression that the proposition was in the bag. Unbelievable.

It's a very lazy and cash-soaked business, this California Democratic consulting world, in which risk-averse TV dominant consultants waste money from donors and lose to the right while sniping at each other anonymously like wealthy high school gossips. And that's why these consultants won't go on the record, because they are all part of the cartel. They have to pretend like the system itself works, that this was just an isolated instance, that there's no problem with a corporate lobbyist running two progressive campaigns inefficiently at the same time, only this instance of a corporate lobbyist-type running two progressive campaigns inefficiently at the same time. I mean, look who else is a 'top' Democratic consultant or strategist in California - Gary South and/or Chris Lehane come to mind, and there aren't that many, so these guys are probably sources for Dickinson. Lehane's record is wonderful; he screwed up Wes Clark's Presidential campaign and most reprehensibly took money from the anti-labor studios to go after the Writer's Guild during their strike. Sniping at a fellow club member anonymously is a sure way to signal to others that this was simply a problem isolated to Proposition 8, instead of systemic inefficiency and corruption in the California consulting establishment itself.

But that's what it was. This corroded group lost significant statewide races and initiatives in 2002, 2003, 2006, and 2008, in good years and bad years, by running cautious and ineffective TV dominant lazy campaigns. I'm quite confident that Proposition 8 shook the gay community to the core, and gay rights is going to take a more radical and effective tact from now on. Still, this consultant racket can still do a lot of damage. In 2010, Barbara Boxer is going to be up for reelection, and she might be very heavily targeted by Republicans in a year that probably won't be great for Democrats. She'll have a lot of money and it might just be a very expensive race; let's just hope that Boxer chooses someone other than a 'top' Democratic strategist to run her campaign.
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Matt Stoller is a political activist/blogger in DC, and was an editor at MyDD from November 2005 until June 2007. He also consults for the Sunlight Foundation, FreePress.net, and Working Assets as well as proactively networking other progressive bloggers/internet activists and progressive professionals. In 2006 Stoller was very involved in supporting Ned Lamont's campaign to replace Joe Lieberman as senator from Connecticut, a project he undertook after he came off of the Jon Corzine for Governor in New Jersey, where he blogged for the campaign. Stoller was one of the co-creators of The Blogging of the President, which explored the ongoing digital transformation of politics first in weblog format and later as a nationally syndicated talk radio show from Minnesota Public Radio. This represented one of the first attempts to bring the conversation in the blogosphere directly into the broadcast media. In addition to his daily work, he has testified before the Federal Election Commission on the role of electronic media in politics, and is the co-author with Chris Bowers of a report on electronic communities in politics. Stoller started blogging in response to the buildup to the Iraq War in 2002. Stoller worked on the Draft Clark movement to bring Wesley Clark into the nominating race for president of the United States.

12/3/08

Prop 8 (The Musical)

The hilarious people at "Funny of Die" have put out a new video, "Prop 8 - The Musical." The star-studded participants include Jack Black, Neil Patrick Harris, Margaret Cho, John C. Reilly, Maya Rudolph and many more familiar faces. If this isn't comedy, I don't know what is.

See more Jack Black videos at Funny or Die

11/17/08

What Do We Want? Equal Rights. When Do We Want It? NOW!

In Los Angeles on Saturday November 15th, protesters clustered shoulder to shoulder angrily, albeit peacefully, near City Hall before setting off on a downtown march, chanting and carrying rainbow flags and signs bearing messages such as "No More Mr. Nice Gay" and "No on H8."

I was lucky enough to attend.

It is estimated that 10,000 to 12,000 people attended the event, well below the 40,000 the department had expected.

Still, demonstrators called the event a success, noting that participants had been galvanized by a loosely organized grass-roots campaign that sprang up after the Nov. 4 election. Not to mention that there was a heat-wave sweeping through Los Angeles this past weekend and temperatures hung around a sweltering 90 degrees.


My friends and I marched loudly and proudly, holding signs like "Seper8 Church & St8" and "Next time we'll vote on YOUR rights". As always, I showed up fully armed... with my camera, to shoot all the action. I've included a slideshow of some of my favorite moments, including some of the best signs I could find, plus a short video clip taken from my phone.

We are in a new kind of civil rights moment right now - there has already been change but there is still so much more to come. Anything you can do to help stand up for the LGBTQI community is something show your support and show that we deserve the same rights as anyone else...remember every little bit counts. Just remember one thing - do it peacefully, do it respectfully and do it with honor.

I will leave you with a quote: “Those who make peaceful revolutions impossible will make violent revolutions inevitable” - John Fitzgerald Kennedy



Repeal Prop 8 Protest - Los Angeles


11/13/08

Gay Marriage: An Interesting Dialogue from Both Sides

A friend of mine who has asked to remain anonymous due to reasons of employment, recently had a dialogue with the organizer of a local San Diego meet-up group called iSupport Marriage. The organizer is also a member of the well-known Rock Church led by Pastor Miles McPherson who is committed to sharing the gospel of Jesus Christ to all of San Diego. The Rock Church also donated thousands of dollars to YES on Prop 8.

Below is an interesting dialogue between my friend and a member of this church. I believe it began as a discussion on a message board and grew into something more, but I find it quite fascinating that two strangers have engaged in such a heated discussion.


My friend:
I'm all for free speech, which is exactly why I am here to express my opinion on an open blog forum. If you don't want people countering your opinionated ideas, then write a private journal. Really you are just preaching to people here, some of whom will listen, but disagree.

So it's ironic that you mention free speech, a civil right. Imagine if some people (specifically a slight 52% of people) decided that Asians could no longer have free speech, but it applies ONLY to Asians. I feel wrong just typing it because I believe in equal rights for all, but I am trying to give you some perspective that you lack. I am not trying to, as you say the ACLU says I am trying to, "push" my views on others. I just simply believe you do not know what you are doing (and I forgive you, Luke 23:34). You voted to protect a word, and it took rights away from people. That's wrong, can't you see it? No, and you never will. So yes, I am angry and using strong language to let you know that homosexuals are not going to let it go so easily. Give me my rights and I will leave you to live your "amazingly beautiful," yet righteous lifestyle where you judge others like me.

And it was YOU who spoke vulgarly about penises-in-anuses, I thank you for that visual BTW, and I did call you a bigot b/c Prop 8 breeds nothing but hate. You are shocked, mad, and defensive b/c I am trying to get you to call this measure what is really is: homophobia. What are you afraid of? Just think about how the wording for 8 was used to confuse people. A yes to restore marriage? What does that even mean? Why didn't they just call it the Anti-Gay Marriage act and be done with it. Sneaky and deceitful, typical of Christian conservatives. Additionally, I think the argument for my intolerance is rather weak. There are far more heterosexuals in the world; I laugh to think you think I don't accept them. Or is it your religion that you think I have an intolerance for? I like to live and let live. What's best for me may not be best for someone else, and who am I to tell people how to live? But when religious missionaries disturb my private life by knocking on my door to join their cause, I am angered. I am angered because I know these people do not accept a very small part of my nature that I cannot control. Yes, I am intolerant of these people, "pushing" their ideas on me. Religion is something you choose, if I was looking for guidance from that sector, I'd come find it. Being gay is my genes. If you took the time to understand anything about gay people, you'd know that. Gays do not walk around trying to make more gay people b/c we're educated enough to know that it doesn't work that way.

One final thing, do you really think any of the problems of our nation will be solved b/c gays can't marry? And further than that, how do you supposed things will worsen by gays getting married? Did the sky fall in the last 6 months here in California? No it didn't and it never will as long as we let freedom ring. You go ahead and try to silence our bell, but the world is changing. Get out of the new road if you can't lend a hand.

P.S. I go "patrolling" around for people like yourself b/c I don't seem to meet them in my day-to-day. Either I've surrounded myself with truly decent human beings or else everyone I know is lying to my face. The latter seems pretty unlikely, and I am 52% sure of that.


Jen, from The Rock Church:

You go out of your way intolerantly devoted to your opinion to treat the members of this i SupportMarriage who are doing nothing to you, with hatred and intolerance. You come here to call me a name that describes you because I'm practicing my free speech and opinion. You are such a predictable and typical liberal on anything that is different from you. Both sides hear about you all the time, you are not special and nothing new. Yes, you are nothing new.

How am I or we a bigot when we tolerate people like you all the time? I have not been mean to any of your supporters. We have been tolerant of these unions, have allowed them to exist, granted all the same rights, and have called them what they are: civil unions. It is a civil union with all the same rights as granted to married couples. There is nothing that prohibits civil unions in this Prop, no rights will be taken away and no rights are kept from them right now. Civil union couples have all the same rights as married people. Go find a withheld right... nothing

We tolerate gay lifestyles everyday. I don't email them "bigot." We don't go policing their bedrooms when they choose to have another man's penus in their rectum. Again, this Prop is not about rights. The only issue here is you and your supporters to want to rename a relationship defined as a civil union to what it is not. Say what you want but marriage has never been universally accepted as being between a man and a man and a woman and a woman so to call their union "marriage" under the definition of what it isn't is just inaccurate. Call an apple orange and it is still an apple so I prefer to call it an apple so there is no confusion between an orange.

The reality is that You are actually only fighting for social acceptance. Be real. That's what this is for you as already proven by both sides that it is not about equal rights. Even the gay agenda and the ACLU knows this and set limits on themselves and followers: http://www.aclu.org/p...

Your side's bigotry was only made more obvious by the unwillingness of the gay agenda to bring this on the ballot themselves and let the people choose, and instead, insist that the 4 judges impose it on the whole state. Where is the democracy in that? But you don't care, because the fact is, your side is the intolerant one. Our side actually has people speak for themselves by voting; once in Prop 22 and now Prop 8. So let the people of CA be heard and not be harassed by you. And since I had a ballot, I chose YES on 8. I won't email you if Yes on 8 passes to rub it in your face, though I can't say that about you if it goes to your favor.

People like me who fight for free speech allow everyone, including you, to voice your hate and intolerance towards me. You keep doing what you're doing and suppress it and soon you won't have free speech. Take courage in your freedom of speech that our country has availed to everyone here, including mines, and just vote on it.

Do as you please and it won't bother me a bit. You are not the boss of me, you don't know me and you are not the judge of me. Unfortunately, you have nothing better to do but make yourself feel better by going into a group's members list and call them what you are while my life is amazingly beautiful. What a life you must have. My gay friends think very little of people like you anyway. For you to do this only calls them to judge you on the standards you set for yourself. YOU ARE THE ACTUAL BIGOT!

You think you know me in one word by looking at my picture and membership on here. I am not judging you but merely stating my opinion and practicing my rights we all have. I can at least make a fair assessment based on your action. Yes on 8; that is free speech and leave me alone.


I hope that's enough to get you fired up. As you've probably heard by now, massive demonstrations are being organized for 10:30am PST/1:30pm EST this Saturday, November 15th at major city halls across the nation. To find the locations in your state, click here. I hope you will join the fight for marriage equality.

11/5/08

Prop H8: The Fight is NOT Over

If there's one thing that REALLY gets my blood boiling, it's seeing the following note scrawled on a dirty truck driving down the highway, which I spotted while on the road in Malibu only a few short hours ago. Luckily, I was returning from a photoshoot for work and had my camera in hand. I am still in shock and awe at the rampant discrimination that is running through California at this very moment. I had to use some serious self-restraint to stop myself from ramming into the back of this truck, but I knew deep down that a little fender bender wouldn't accomplish anything. Now, if he had a "How is my driving, please call..." sticker on the back, that might have been another story...





Seeing that just made me realize one thing. This fight is far from over. Never before in California's history has a group, who currently enjoys a basic right, been singled out and then had those rights ripped from them by a vote of their fellow citizens. This decision is so radical and so egregious that every voice must first be heard, no matter how unlikely a changed outcome might be.


If you have some time this evening and you live in California, please come join us and show your support at the following locations:

Community Gatherings

Event listing updated regularly at www.NoOnProp8.com/events

Los Angeles
7:00 p.m. | West Hollywood
Corner of Santa Monica Blvd and San Vicente Blvd

Modesto
7:00 p.m.| Stanislaus Pride Center
Silent walk to Graceada Park

Sacramento
5 p.m. | Capitol Steps

San Diego
6:30 | The Center
3909 Centre Street
Co-sponsored by the Center, EQCA and HRC

San Luis Obispo
5:30 p.m. | Mission Plaza Amphitheater

San Francisco
6:30 | City Hall
1 Dr. Carlton B. Goodlett Place

And to keep hope flying high, action has already been taken. According to Lamda Legal:

The American Civil Liberties Union, Lambda Legal and the National Center for Lesbian Rights filed a writ petition before the California Supreme Court today urging the court to invalidate Proposition 8 if it passes. The petition charges that Proposition 8 is invalid because the initiative process was improperly used in an attempt to undo the constitution's core commitment to equality for everyone by eliminating a fundamental right from just one group — lesbian and gay Californians. Proposition 8 also improperly attempts to prevent the courts from exercising their essential constitutional role of protecting the equal protection rights of minorities. According to the California Constitution, such radical changes to the organizing principles of state government cannot be made by simple majority vote through the initiative process, but instead must, at a minimum, go through the state legislature first.

The California Constitution itself sets out two ways to alter the document that sets the most basic rules about how state government works. Through the initiative process, voters can make relatively small changes to the constitution. But any measure that would change the underlying principles of the constitution must first be approved by the legislature before being submitted to the voters. That didn't happen with Proposition 8, and that's why it's invalid.

Because of the struggle fought here in California and fought so incredibly well by the people in this state that loves freedom and justice -- our fight for full civil rights will continue. Stay tuned for more from Lesbiatopia on the fight for equality.

Forward. Backward.

- The Wishful Writer

Last night, this country and one man rendered me: speechless, emotional, proud, invigorated, hopeful, determined, heard, triumphant, tearful and peaceful.

Barack Obama. The 44th president of the United States of America.

The LEADER of our country, the same country who would have denied him the right to vote, based on his skin color, had he been born before 1870 and the passing of the 15th amendment.

The significance of this achievement can not be denied.

Not that he deserved the presidency based on skin color. He didn't. Just like Sarah Palin didn't deserve my vote simply because we share the same anatomy.


My point is we'd be remiss not to stop and reflect on how far we, as a nation, have come in seeing PAST the color of a person's skin - so that we may hear his or her voice instead.

I realize that while much of the nation celebrates this morning, there is a large percentage of people who did not vote for Obama who are disappointed, scared, angry and worried about the safety and direction of our country. Both mine and April's families are among that group and I respect their concerns and sincerely hope Obama serves them in ways they don't anticipate, and surprises them by governing with their concerns in mind.

For the first time, in a victory speech, a President included ME, as a gay person, in his remarks.

He said:

"It’s the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Latino, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled - Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been a collection of Red States and Blue States: we are, and always will be, the United States of America."

He didn't trip over the word GAY. It didn't sound dirty. Or Shameful. It sounded...like it belonged.

Here's his victory speech, one of the most humbling, inspiring, eloquent speeches I've ever heard. (You'll have to endure the commercial first, sorry).


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Obama's appeal and promise of CHANGE was enough to turn Republican strongholds the color blue. Last night was the first time in forty years the state of Virginia voted democratically. Florida and North Carolina also switched things up, voting for Obama.

Those voters agreed that his platform, not his skin color, was the issue. Their vote proved there is no place for discrimination in the White House.

However, thousands of people who are this morning patting themselves on the back because they helped elect the first African American president, also voted to write discrimination against gays and lesbians into the Constitution.

The irony is painful.

How can we travel so far forward AND backward in the same night?

Voters in Arkansas said gays and lesbians can't be foster parents. I know, without a doubt, April and I would provide a loving, stable, strict and safe environment for any child - whether it was biological, adopted or fostered. To suggest children are better off left in "the system" than with us is insulting, hurtful and punishes children who long for the stability that many loving same-sex couples could provide. Shame on you Arkansas. Shame on you. (Anyone who doubts the type of home a gay or lesbian could provide need only visit Lori's blog. She adopted two special needs kids and they are thriving.)

Voters in Florida and Arizona said no, same sex couples can't marry. Voters in California voted YES on Prop 8, stripping the rights of gay couples who until today, could get married anywhere in the state. My friends Heather and Chelsea have been married a little more than a week. Now, California, the state that recognized and blessed their union, is telling them the love they share is a second-class love, not worthy of the same type of respect and protection given to heterosexual couples.

Separate, not equal.

Sounds familiar, right?

A little like the road traveled by others facing discrimination based on race or gender...

Forward. Backward.

10/27/08

Get Your Vote & Your Donation On, Ya'll

- Renee Gannon

First of all, I have some very exciting news. I am very proud to annouce that I am one of the newest bloggers at OurChart! I will be writing blog articles there around once a week but of course I will include a teaser to my article so you will be able to get all of my literary goodness here on Lesbiatopia, too.

On another note, today is the VERY last date to donate to 8 Against 8, which as of 2pm EST has raised $13,040. The fundraiser technically ends at Midnight tonight, PST, but Grace, the founder of the 8 Against 8 campaign, is extending it until Tuesday morning 8:00am EST, because midnight Pacific time is 3am EST, and like Grace, we all need our beauty sleep.

Let’s make this last day one for the record books! If you haven't donated yet, please consider giving... even $5 helps and with the price of gas going down, use that extra change in your pocket to help out a great cause.

In other news, goodbye blonde hair, hello red/brown! I tend to change my hair color as often as I change my underwear (what?), so here is a picture of my latest fall look:

Now... drumroll please... my very first article for OurChart. Check it out and show me some OurChart love!! It's all about the importance of voting, about getting educated on important issues and spreading the word about the states that have gay marriage amendments on the ballot. Oh yeah, and if not for anything else, go read my kickass political limerick.

Click here to read That Day in November and don't forget to add me as a friend if you're an Ourchart user!

10/23/08

8 Against 8 - We Might've Reached Our Goal, But We're Unstoppable!

First of all, I want to give a big THANK YOU to everyone who has helped spread the word about the lesbian bloggers' 8 Against 8 campaign (www.8against8.com). Our goal was to raise $8,000 in 8 days and we've already surpassed that goal in only 3 days! The overwhelming response to the online fundraiser has been incredible... thanks to the generosity of over 185 since Monday, 8 Against 8, reached its goal in three days - at 11:45 PM ET on Wednesday, we went over the top with $8,015 in donations (and we're currently at $8,938 and going strong)!

“We’re going to keep ‘8 Against 8’ going for the full eight days,” said Grace Chu of www.gracethespot.com and www.afterellen.com.

“Equality California’s No on Prop 8 campaign needs every cent they can get to defeat this atrocious ballot initiative,” she continued. “We cannot afford to lose our momentum in this crucial time leading up to the election. We’ve smashed our goal of $8,000. Now let’s keep the donations coming in to smash Proposition 8.”

Dorothy Snarker of http://dorothysurrenders.blogspot.com and www.afterellen.com echoed Chu’s sentiments. "Reaching our goal in three days is amazing and a testament to the generosity and passion of all of our readers,” said Snarker. “But just because we reached $8,000 doesn't mean we should stop pushing for more. Polls show the 'Yes' and 'No' votes are almost dead-even. We can't let intolerance win because we couldn't afford to fight hatred head-on."




L. A. Vess, Managing Editor of GayWired Media, which includes the lesbian-oriented site SheWired.com, stated: "The fight to defeat Prop 8 and other initiatives like it across the country now and in the future truly has to begin at the individual level. These bloggers are doing what we should all do when we are moved by a cause and see our human rights in danger -- get out on the front lines and make things happen. Sitting on the sidelines just isn't going to cut it anymore. I applaud these extraordinary women for their dedicated efforts to protect equality for all." (from GayWired.com)

We've received a lot of press and blog love over the last few days as well. My fellow bloggers on this project are:

Check out their blogs and show them some love!

In the meantime, if you have already donated through www.8against8.com, please help us (and your gay and lesbian brothers and sisters in California) in the following ways:

  • tell your friends to donate - dig into your address books and send a mass e-mail, send a mass mail to your Facebook friends, etc.
  • add the www.8against8.com URL to your Facebook status updates
  • share the link on Facebook and social bookmarking sites like Digg, Mixx, Reddit, StumbleUpon etc.
  • link us up on any forums or chat boards you frequent
  • comment on other blogs with the URL
  • put the URL on Twitter
  • send the latest press release to all of your media contacts and favorite bloggers (this is crucial - bombard them until they can't say "no")
  • call all your celebrity friends and ask them to endorse the 8 Against 8 campaign

Some people are still skeptical about the power of bloggers and their readers — and the capabilities of the internet in general. Prove them wrong, and make a difference while you're at it. We, the bloggers participating in 8 Against 8, have faith in all of you. You have already shown us what you can do.

(P.S. We have ad promotions and giveaways and even an art auction. And a Facebook group. Check them out!)

If you have a blog, email me at reneegannon(at)gmail.com and I'll send you our latest press release. Help us spread the good word and let's kick Prop 8's ass faster than Sarah Palin can say "constitutional marriage amendment".

Thanks again to everyone who has helped make this a BIG success!!

10/21/08

8 Against 8: Day 2, Kickin' Ass and Takin' Names

Well, it's day 2 of 8 Against 8, and we are more successful than any of us could have imagined. As of 11am EST/8am PST we've already raised $4,264!!! If you do the math, that means we're already half-way to our goal of $8,000 and it's only the second the day. It just goes to show what can happen when a few overly ambitious lesbians put their minds together; it's all kinds of amazing!

Of course, we couldn't do it without your help. Everyone has been so generous in donating their time, efforts, money and spreading of awareness like cream cheese to a bagel. The generosity is so delicious I can practically taste it! Because of you, there is a very high chance that I will be able to legally marry my girlfriend and that, my friends, is the one gift that keeps on giving. So THANK YOU!!!


Also, if you have Facebook, please check out the 8 Against 8 Facebook page, become a fan and spread the word. We’ve made the news on some blogs with significant readership including Gaywired, AfterEllen, Shakesville, Bilerico, The L Word Online, mainstream rtumble, and many others. Let's keep the ball rolling!

Also, our own Lori Hahn, of Hahn at Home was quoted in the The Sacramento Bee by Jennifer Garza in a story about a Sacramento-area lesbian couple, Dru and Robin Richie and their son James, about what Prop 8 means to them. Check it out, it's good stuff!

Now we know California is a big state and gets a lot of attention for Proposition 8, but there are several other states that deserve equal amounts of recognition and love. Arizona is fighting Prop 102 – and they need your help. Florida has to contend with fighting of Amendment 2. And just recently, opponents have sponsored Question 1 a very dangerous ballot initiative in Connecticut which has the potential to reverse the rights of their recent victory for same-sex marriage. I really want to be able to see my good blogging friends Jess and Tina be able to get married. They ALL need our help too!

So once again, we say THANK YOU to everyone who has donated in some way.
Thank you for standing with us to support freedom, fairness and equality.

(If you are a member of the press, or if you have press contacts, the most recent press release is here.)

ADVERTISING PROMOTIONS
As an incentive (and a thank you), we would like to offer advertising space on our blogs to business entities and bloggers who donate to this fundraising effort.

The blogs giving away advertising in this effort are high-traffic blogs, and each blog reaches a different market segment.

Pam’s House Blend - highly influential and prominent political/activist blog

Grace The Spot - humor/pop culture

Sugarbutch Chronicles - love, sex, relationships, queer and gender theory

Lesbiatopia - one stop shop for news, entertainment, fashion, politics

The Lesbian Lifestyle - general lesbian interest, one of the hubs of the online lesbian community

If you donate $100, you get a week-long ad at Pam’s House Blend, Grace the Spot, The Lesbian Lifestyle and Sugarbutch Chronicles. This amounts to 150,000 ad impressions.

If you donate $500, you get a month-long ad at Pam’s House Blend and Lesbiatopia. This amount to 550,000 ad impressions.

PLEASE ENTER YOUR EMAIL WHEN YOU DONATE via the donation page (or else you won’t get a confirmation e-mail) and send one of us your confirmation email to get your ad spaces.

Our e-mails are as follows: pam[at]phblend.com (Pam’s House Blend), gracethespot[at]gmail.com (Grace the Spot), aspiringstud[at]gmail.com (Sugarbutch Chronicles), goldstardyke[at]gmail.com (The Lesbian Lifestyle), reneegannon[at]gmail.com (Lesbiatopia).

OTHER PROMOTIONS / GIVEAWAYS

  • Renee from Lesbiatopia will be giving away a The Only Bush I Don’t Like t-shirt, in addition to advertising space, to anyone that donates $500 or more. Please e-mail her directly to collect the t-shirt.
  • Kelly at The Lesbian Lifestyle will be offering a free My Heart is not for you to Judge T-shirt to the first 5 people that donate over $150.00 and forward her their confirmation email.
  • Pam’s House Blend: If you donate $500 or more, in addition to advertising space, you get a Pam’s House Blend T-shirt and mug. Please forward your e-mail Pam to collect the T-shirt and mug.
  • Hahn at Home: Anyone donating $100 or more through Hahn at Home will receive a Hahn at Home coffee mug. Please e-mail lori[at]hahnathome.com to collect the coffee mug.
  • This Girl Called Automatic Win: Anyone who sends Riese a photo for the No on 8 Quilt and/or donates to 8 Against 8 and forwards her his or her confirmation e-mail will be entered in a drawing to win fun prizes. Prizes include, and are not limited to, The L Word Season 5 DVD and Auto Insomnia ‘Zine. Riese can be reached at marielyn176[at]gmail.com

Thank you again for your support.

Best,
Grace Chu and Grace Rosen - Grace The Spot
Lori Hahn - Hahn At Home
Kelly Leszczynski - The Lesbian Lifestyle
Dorothy Snarker - Dorothy Surrenders
Pam Spaulding - Pam's House Blend
Sinclair - Sugarbutch Chronicles
Riese - This Girl Called Automatic Win
Renee Gannon - Lesbiatopia


9/27/08

Levi Strauss & Co. joins PG&E as Co-Chair of No On Prop 8 Equality Business Council

Photobucket Levi Strauss & Co. has joined PG&E as the Co-Chair of The No On Prop 8 Equality Business Council along with a $25K donation. Levi Strauss & Co. is one of the oldest and most prestigious clothing and apparel companies in the world.

"As a company with a long history of standing up for equality, civil rights and social justice on behalf of our employees and other stakeholders, we are proud to co-chair the business council with our friends at PG&E,” said John Anderson, President and CEO of Levi Strauss & Co.


In 1992 Levi Strauss & Co. became the first Fortune 500 company to extend health benefits to the unmarried partners of its employees, and in 2007, it was the only California company to file a brief with the state’s Supreme Court in support of same-sex marriage.

The No on Prop 8 Equality Business Advisory Council (now co-chaired by PG&E and Levi Strauss & Co.) has joined civil rights and religious leaders, elected officials and other fellow business leaders who are pledging to vote “NO” on Prop 8 this November.

Geoff Kors, a member of the NO on Prop 8 Executive Committee, welcomed Levi Strauss to the campaign. “We’re delighted to have Levi Strauss & Co. join our efforts to defeat Prop 8,” said Kors, who is Executive Director of Equality California. “Everybody wins when businesses take an important leadership role in ensuring that California remains a place where no one is treated differently under the law. Levi Strauss & Co., and other members of the Business Council, recognize that gay and lesbians are their employees, their shareholders, customers, neighbors and friends. We welcome Levi Strauss & Co. as Council Co-Chair and look forward to many more California businesses joining our effort.”

Businesses can endorse the campaign, join the council, lend use of their company name and give monetary contributions to help defeat Proposition 8 by visiting www.NoOnProp8.com.

You can read the original press release here.

9/25/08

Congratulations to Lindsay and Sam

Although this may be a foray into unknown territory for this Enlightened Dyke, but I have a bit of insight to share on this latest bit of Celesbrity News. I subscribe to several LGBT-related blogs and news feeds in my beloved Google Reader, and often, high-profile information comes to me from multiple sources. Yesterday's announcement that Lindsay Lohan verbally and publicly confirmed her relationship with DJ Samatha Ronson was no exception. You can read about it here and here and here. Although many people "in the know" (i.e. who pay attention to tabloids and celebrity gossip) have speculated for several months, the couple had previously refused to verify the status of their relationship.


I am personally a fan of privacy, of minding your own business, of giving people space, and of respecting boundaries. I understand, however, that being a celebrity necessitates the sacrifice of some of these rights. It's the price you pay for fame. So I took a gander at the news that's been released over the various media outlet, and here's a summary of what I've found:

Lindsay Lohan, initially famous for her tres mingnone dual-role as the twins of the Parent Trap remake, became much more famous for her slip into scandal as a teenager. Between the drugs, the rehab, the nude pictures, the car accidents, and the cat fights with other scandalous celebs, it seemed that she hit rock bottom and planned on staying there. And then, all of a sudden... nothing. No scandal, no drama, no fighting, not even many public appearances. Was a parole officer? A newfound faith? Had she seen the light? Well, we now know that it was much simpler, and yet more profound at the same time - she fell in love. Not a one-night stand, not a publicity stunt, but that turn-your-world-around, make-you-a-better-person, hers-and-hers-coordinated-towels kind of love.

They went shopping together, they accompanied each other to work, they generally just couldn't get enough of each other. But they kept it personal and private. Rumor has it that they were offered a payout in excess of 2 million for an exclusive on their relationship, but declined. Instead, the public confirmation of their status came as a casual "yeah, it's been a long time" during an informal conversation with friends. And have you noticed how happy they look? Gosh, it just warms my heart. Everyone deserves to feel this kind of love. And after all that she's been through, I hope this love lasts for Lindsay, and for Sam.

There's been quite a bit of discussion among the lesbian community about whether or not it is "good" to have this kind of celebrity on "our" side, as well as speculation about her sexuality and whether or not that played a role in the drama she went through as a teenager. Well I just wish we didn't have to have "sides" in the first place. As someone who only dated guys before falling in love with a woman, I tend to eschew labels. Why should we be obligated to identify ourselves by the gender(s) to which we are attracted? Maybe Lindsay has always felt she was a lesbian, or maybe she never has. I don't think it really matters. What's important is the exposure. That the two of them, the media, and the rest of us all treat them just as we would any other celebrity couple. I think that by acknowledging their relationship in such a simple and profound way, they've helped "normalize" (I hate that word) the idea of same-sex couples in the minds of a few more people.

Here in California, we have a few short weeks remaining until our state votes on whether or not to take away the rights of same sex couples to marry. Recent polls have indicated that more and more people are leaning toward the NO vote, but there is still a significant segment that is undecided. I think as they see things like this: that two women can have a successful relationship which helps them become better people, and that their relationship is no different from any other, I think they will begin to see that this is not an attempt to "change the values of America", but rather, a fight for equal rights, and the right of everyone to love.

Whatever your thoughts on LiLo, I hope that you remember the joy of your first real love, and I hope that you join me in celebrating Lindsay and Samantha's relationship and wishing them all the best as they grow in their love.

9/13/08

For Our Children: Marriage, Children and Society.

"We must protect the children." That is the rallying cry of so many who oppose same-sex marriage. It is a lie designed by the Cultural Conservatives to gain acceptance by the mainstream media. And yet, these bastions of "righteousness" push a lie about how same-sex marriage harms children. Evidence, however, proves the opposite. The reality is that, as long as a child is wanted, loved and supported, they will grow up happy and healthy. Children need a stable, loving family, and it does not matter if they have two mothers, two fathers, or one of each. What is more, children of gay, lesbian, and transgendered parents are no more likely than any other child to suffer from sexuality and gender issues.

Given the difficulties involved for any same-sex couple having a child, children are often wanted. Children of same-sex couples are often a huge investment in time and money long before they are even conceived. Ultimately, same-sex couples are just like opposite-sex couples when it comes to raising a family with good and bad families populating both, according to all the research that has been done on this subject for the last ten years. Still, the desire to have a child through birth or adoption often means that child is wanted and loved.



A. P. Buxton’s 1999 study of one and two parent families is the most often used to attack the fitness of same sex couples to raise children, and how same-sex marriage would harm children. The reality is that Buxton’s study showed just the opposite. It is not the kinds of parents which are important, but the number- two parents are better than one. He isn’t the only one to make that point either. In preparation for the passage of same-sex marriage in Canada, a review of the known literature, and what was found is that there is no statistical difference between having two mothers, two father, or a mother and a father.

The reality is that children of same-sex couples are not harmed by the experiences that they get at home, but rather, are often harmed by their peers who may attack their ‘unconventional’ life. Indeed, in an article prepared for the Journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics, the findings were that the legally imposed instability of same sex marriages, and the lack of social acceptance of these families, were more detrimental to the mental health of a child. In terms of the mental development of children in, especially, lesbian families, there was almost no difference between them and the children of heterosexuals. In fact, a statistically significant number of the children of lesbian families showed a greater tendency to be affectionate and nurturing than the children of opposite sex couples. It should be noted that the bulk of the study dealt with lesbian families since it has been notoriously difficult to find same-sex male couples with children.

In the end, the lack of recognition of same-sex marriage is what harms children, not the existence of it. Children of same-sex couples are just has happy, healthy, and loving as the next child of a stable marriage. It is, however, society which harms children by preventing same-sex couples from having the stability that a family requires to thrive. We want marriage rights for our children as much as for ourselves. In an election cycle when three anti-marriage laws go before the voters, we must do what we can to protect our children.

I urge those in California, Florida and Arizona to set aside their discomfort of and forget the lies surrounding same-sex marriage and vote NO on Prop 8 (Cali), Amendment 2 (Flor) and Prop 11 (Ariz.) For the children, that should really be our rallying cry. In truth, we do this for our children, and for the children of our friends. This is as much about them as it is about us.

For the data presented by the AAP- http://pediatrics.aappublications.org/cgi/content/full/118/1/349

(I hope to continue to present more posts on the issue of same-sex marriage and to undermine many of the myths and lies that abound on this topic.)

9/10/08

The LGBT Community is Called to Action

PhotobucketElection Day is 8 short weeks away and your vote is becoming ever critical in this landmark election.

Proposition 8 is a measure currently on the ballot in the State of California which is helping set the stage for human rights around the world. The Proposition would state that "only marriage between a man and a woman is valid or recognized in California" and would effectively ban gay marriage in the state if passed on November 4th, 2008. There are a handful of initiatives such as Protect Marriage.com which encourage voters to vote for the proposition in efforts to have it pass. Lori Hahn of HahnAtHome.com recently came face to face with what she calls ‘paper spam’ from one of these initiatives on her car and decided to ask her readers for ideas on how to thwart their efforts. She herself tried to reach out to the organization who distributed the flyers for more information on their plans. Hahn is a lesbian blogger who resides in California and feels that “by passing the anti-gay marriage amendment in California, they (proponents of Prop 8) are doing the very thing, that if done to them, would send them into civil unrest”.



Like Hahn, other gay and lesbian bloggers have become vocal about striking down the proposition and some have organized a civil protest against Proposition 8 while simultaneously showing support for a major corporation who recently joined the National Gay & Lesbian Chamber of Commerce (NGLCC).

Fellow lesbian mom bloggers Paula Brooks of Queen of The Surf Pirates, and Julie Phineas of Lesbian Mommy have initiated an “LGBT Community Call to Action” in efforts to strike down the measure by encouraging all members of the LGBT community and those who support them to "get out and about" in their community every weekend until Election Day. The bloggers are hoping to "Personalize Prop 8 Across the State" with these efforts, encouraging the community to participate in everyday activities out in the community, rather than staying at home or indoors over the weekend. The number one recommended way they are suggesting the community get visible? Visit their local McDonalds.

The initiative is hoping to use the popularity and support of McDonald’s as a common ground for those who are for the measure to interact in daily life with those in the community that the measure would affect.

Here is the statement released by lesbian mom blogger Julie Phineas in regards to the official LGBT Community Call to Action:

PhotobucketWith 8 weeks to go until Proposition 8 comes to a vote in the State of California, in effort to strike down the measure we call all members of the LGBT community and their supporters to take action with us!

We need your help to put a face on the lives of those that this proposition affects!! Help us to ‘get visible’ and let our presence as upstanding citizens of this world be seen by all. We need to raise awareness amongst all citizens of the good State of California of the need to stand up for equal rights by vowing to Vote NO on Prop 8 on the up and coming Election Day, November 4, 2008. We call all who support equality and fairness to help us "Personalize Prop 8 across the State!"

You can join us in taking action every weekend (Saturday and Sunday) from now until Election Day on November 4th, to “get out and about” in your community!

The idea behind this LGBT Community Call to Action is to put a familiar face on the LGBT community and give those in the heterosexual community a chance to interact in daily life with those that the measure would directly affect.

Here are Some Ideas for What to Do Over the Weekends :

• The number one recommended way to become more visible on your community is to visit your local McDonald’s one day each weekend until Election Day, November 4th. McDonald’s is a highly recognized and popular business that is located in most communities across the state, country, and planet! Many locations offer a McDonald’s Play Land if you have children, plus you can find many choices on their menu to fit your lifestyle and budget. McDonald’s is a corporation who has recently shown their support to the LGBT community by joining the NGLCC. Visiting your local McDonald’s over the weekend is a great way to get highly visible in your community, and is one way that we can show support for a corporation that supports our community!

• The next way you can become more visible in the fight against Prop 8 is to get out and about in other ways such as attending birthday parties and weddings, going to the mall or movies, taking your laundry to the laundry mat, walking your pets, grocery shopping, or take your kids to the park. Visit straight friends and family members and tell them why you are making it a point to get out and about, and let them know how important their vote is to you this Election Day. You could even just drive, ride your bike, roller skate, or just go for a walk around your neighborhood!

• Take it to the next level! Purchase “No on Prop 8” tools and merchandise to wear while you are out and about in the community or hanging out at McDonald’s. You can put a bumper sticker on your car (or window decal), wear a No on Prop 8 t-shirt (men’s here and women’s here), or a No on Prop 8 button.

• Want to take it even further? Report your experience from the weekend or your visit to McDonald’s on social news websites like iReport or on your personal blog! Download the NO on 8 ToolKit here for good examples.

Even if you don’t live in California or are not a member of the LGBT community, you can still help in the fight to strike down Proposition 8 on Election Day!

You don’t have to be married or planning to get married to vote for freedom, equality, and fairness for all by voting NO on Proposition 8. Everyone can and should support equality for all in any way that they can… it could be your rights that are up for debate one day! We are all in this together.

Here Are the Ways That You Can Help:

• In California – Visit your local McDonald’s to show your support for our efforts every weekend until Election Day. You can let us know about your pledge to Vote No on Prop 8 by utilizing the tools mentioned above, and/or reporting your experience on iReport or on your personal blog. Above all else make sure that you register to vote and Vote NO on Proposition 8 on Election Day, November 4th.

• All Over the U.S.– Sign the Million for Marriage petition by clicking the banner below:



• Around the World - Voice your opinion about gay rights and let’s open up the conversation to discuss equality worldwide. Comment and discuss the issue on your favorite social networking websites, message boards, or even write your local newspaper. You can also join the fight in our efforts to strike down Prop 8 by joining the NO on Prop 8 web pages on MySpace and FaceBook.

Wherever you are, please pass this message on!

Re-post, forward, or link to this post and spread the word to help in the fight.

Every vote counts, and every vote matters...


The call to action was reportedly sent via email to gay and lesbian bloggers across the internet, gay and lesbian centers in the State of California, as well as known celebrity gays and lesbians. The message was also posted on gay and lesbian social networking websites and major social news portals as well.

McDonald’s was notified of the call to action, though they are not an official sponsor of the event.

More information on the efforts of the lesbian bloggers to call the LGBT community to action can be found at www.Lesbiatopia.com.

The original call to action was posted by Julie Phineas on lesbianmommy.blogspot.com.

The website for the official campaign against Proposition 8 is http://www.noonprop8.com/home.

5/15/08

Breaking News: Marriage Equality for CA!

Via EQCA:
"SAN FRANCISCO: In an historic decision today, the California Supreme Court ruled that same-gender couples deserve the freedom to marry under California law. The landmark ruling makes California the first state in the nation to give lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people full equality."

Join a celebration tonight:
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