Lindsay Lohan Clears Up the Break-Up Rumors on Ellen

- Renee Gannon

Lindsay Lohan went on the Ellen show today and cleared up some of the rumors between her and Samantha Ronson. She never cheated. She didn't even know the break-up was coming and the restraining order "came out of nowhere". She wants to focus on getting her career in focus and getting back on the right track.

I think Lohan kept it together pretty well on the show. She's still so young and has a lot to learn about life and relationships, especially having her life in the limelight all the time. Hopefully she can stay on a positive track. Personally, I like Lindsay Lohan, especially back to her days of Herbie Fully Loaded and Mean Girls, when she had that adorable girl-next-door appeal. I'm rooting for her. Are you?


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Lohan and Ronson Courting the Conservative Double-Standard

By Lesbiatopia Feature Writer Sei

Rumors have abounded about Lindsey Lohan’s on going relationship with girlfriend Samantha Ronson.

To date, neither Lohan nor Ronson have commented upon their relationship. Ms Lohan has made it clear that she wishes to keep her private life private. While Ms Ronson has flatly refused to deny the rumors. According to some in the media, Lohan and Ronson will be finally announce their love for each other publicly in the near future at a ‘lavish LA bash.’

According to Rav Singh of News of the World, Lohan and Ronson would like to have a child, and have been in discussion for some time. Also according to Singh, Lohan hopes that having a child will help her through recovery. Lohan, 22, and Ronson, 31, have apparently discussed asking one of Lohan’s ex’s provide the requisite male contribution for the pregnancy.


For the article, please see http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/showbiz/rav/article22822.ece

O’Reilly, Hannity and Limbaugh will be out in force over this story, have no doubt about that. While one could argue that having a child will not help someone recover from alcohol and drug abuse (though a loving and stable relationship will), I would lay bets that this trio of Conservative bobble heads won’t be focusing on that at all.

O’Reilly will, undoubtedly, be focusing his dirty old man mind on the images of three way sex between Lohan, Ronson and the father of their child. After all, this is something that he has shown a great deal of interest in. That, and falafels. Hannity will probably be sneering his way through comments about how same-sex couples harm children, and Limbaugh will lambaste us with his sanctimonious pomposity about how Lohan is a train wreck and a ‘good example of what being lesbian does to young people.’

They have already done a stellar job attacking Lohan and Ronson for their rumored relationship, which they wish to keep private. How often will they talk about how Lohan having a baby will corrupt the minds of young teens? And yet, not a single one has dared to question what having a pregnant teenager as part of the potential second family is going to do to encourage teen pregnancy, especially since the father of Bristol Palin’s child has publicly stated he never wants children. They have been great about how this is a private matter, and yet they have drooled like wild animals while reporting on every detail of Lindsey Lohan’s life. Miss Palin’s pre-marital sex is swept under the rug to choruses of how ‘she is doing the right thing’, and ‘isn’t she just great for marrying the father’. But for Lohan and Ronson, who have publicly expressed affection for each other, and appear to be in a strong and stabilizing relationship, their decision to have a child at some point will be resoundingly denounced. The Conservative pack will attack these two as being immoral and encouraging immorality without respect for the privacy they now ask for, and hold Bristol Palin and Levi Johnston up as paragons of morality

O’Reilly, Hannity, Limbaugh, and the throngs of paparazzi and Conservative ‘commentators’ who line up behind them, will undoubtedly make some mention about Lohan and Ronson wanting to have a child. True or not, they will leave a streak of what we can only hope is drool behind them as they run around speculating on everything. They will never think about how they are hypocrites for respecting the request of a fellow Conservative, a request that has been honored even by the Liberals, and yet ignoring the requests of others to be left in private. While it is hard to tell if the interest in this story will be because of Lohan’s stardom, or because there is a lesbian relationship wrapped in, or both, the reality is that Lohan and Ronson deserve the same privacy that we should all enjoy. If Palin and Johnston’s lives should be kept out of the spotlight, so should Lohan and Ronson’s; however, it is not likely to happen. Expect the slobbering throng of bobble-headed Conservative commentators to be all over this story. It is a woeful double-standard, and one that is lamentably damaging to both Lohan and Ronson, and one that is all too familiar for the LGBTI community.

It is lamentable that Lohan and Ronson, who seem to be so beneficial to each other, will be harassed and ridiculed by men like O’Reilly, while the relationship of Palin and Johnston is off limits.

Never mind that Bristol Palin’s pregnancy flies in the face of her mother’s, Sarah Palin, public and private morality, and that neither Lohan nor Ronson are involved in politics or policy.

Ellen Degeneres & Portia De Rossi Will Tie the Knot This Weekend!

This just in from USMagazine.com... Our favorite out funny lady, Ellen Degeneres will be walking down the aisle this weekend, to marry her sweetheart, Portia De Rossi.

The pair are planning a small, intimate ceremony with only a few close friends and family.

Following the California Supreme Court's monumental ruling that same sex couple's have the right to marry, DeGeneres announced she planned to wed her longtime girlfriend on a taping of her show in May.

"It's something that we've wanted to do and we want it to be legal and we are very, very excited," DeGeneres, 50, gushed to Us Magazine.

Watch Ellen's emotional engagement announcement.





DeGeneres reflected on their upcoming nuptials at the Daytime Emmy Awards in Hollywood in June.

"I think someday people will look back on this like women not having the right to vote and segregation and anything else that seems ridiculous that we don't all have the same rights," DeGeneres said.

Of the preparations, DeGeneres joked, "Planning a wedding is very stressful. It's crazy. My gardener is now invited."

DeGeneres and De Rossi began dating in December 2004.

"I feel like I found my perfect fit," DeGeneres said of De Rossi in an interview with the Advocate.

"She’s taught me lessons about myself, and I feel like I’ve taught her," DeGeneres added.

Ellen and Portia are great role models to the lesbian community, especially for younger queer women who may not have strong gay role models in their lives. They are proof that it is possible for lesbians to have a long-term relationship, get married and live a normal life like any other monogamous couple.

Lesbiatopia would like to wish Ellen and Portia the utmost happiness on their special day and the continued love and support that they have shown each other from the beginning.

Is Tila Tequila Bumpin' Uglies with Courtney Semel?

Well, it looks like Tila Tequila is onto her 174th shot at love. This time, it's with Courtenay Semel, a socialite and former Lindsay Lohan friend. The two women were spotted romping together at Thursday’s EA Sports/Xbox 360 premiere of Madden NFL '09 in Los Angeles. What the two women were doing at a video game premier isn't unclear, but my guess is that they got lost on the way to The Ivy and ended up there instead.

“I’d seen the show [A Shot at Love] and just needed to meet her ... and it just happened,” Semel told People magazine of Tequila.

When I saw the show, I felt the same way! I just wanted to meet Tila Tequila; her ass and the end of my foot to be precise.

Tequila told People she “didn’t want to jinx anything” about their relationship, but said she was very happy.

The “best friends” told People magazine they enjoy watching movies in bed, sharing clothes and makeup and steering clear of drama. That just might be the funniest thing I've heard all day.

“There are no games,” Tequila told People. “It’s true what they say about lesbians — you meet and then the next day you move in together, because I can’t get rid of her. She pretty much lives at my house.”

But Tila, I thought you were "a bisexual"?

Kathy Griffin's Assistant Runs For The Hills...

This just in, straight from the horses mouth (and by horse, I mean Perez Hilton)...

Sources reveal exclusively to PerezHilton.com that Kathy Griffin's long-time assistant and My Life on the D-List co-star, Jessica Zajicek, has quit.
And, "it's not pretty," an insider tells us.

The split happened earlier this month.

Unfortunately, her Bravo show is not currently under production, so we'll miss out on the drama on TV!

"Jessica had just had enough of Kathy," says our insider. "She put up with her for several years. She couldn't take it anymore."

Sad to see her go. Jessica was a huge part of Kathy's show!

Who will be Kathy's next right arm? Do YOU have what it takes?? Send Kathy an email and let her know YOU want to be her assistant (if not, run for the hills!)

Elizabeth Berkley to Join the Cast of the L Word Season 6

According to Michael Ausiello of EW.com's the Ausiello Files (Entertainment Weekly online) Elizabeth Berkley, who flirted with the L word during her Showgirls days, is joining the Showtime hit for a multi-episode arc.

Elizabeth will play the straight girl that got away from Bette in college. Oooo, I smell some delicious drama! Berkley and Beals, in addition to being real-life buds, co-starred together in the 2002 comedy noir Roger Dodger. For a glimpse at their sparkling chemistry, check out this popular video, shot behind the scenes on Rodger Dodger.



The L Word's sixth and final season debuts next January, and now I can't help but wonder... with the recent announcement of an L Word spin-off, perhaps it will be anchored by Jennifer Beals and Elizabeth Berkley. I can see it now, Flashdance meets Showgirls - I just got a little moist in the panties. Mmmmm!

Breaking News! Lindsay Lohan Joins our Big Lesbian Family

According to MTV.CO.UK, actress Lohan has finally come clean about her relationship with Samantha Ronson...

Lindsay Lohan has admitted she’s in a romantic relationship with DJ Samantha Ronson after months of speculation.

At her 22nd birthday party the Mean Girls actress came clean about tha lady in her life saying: “I just wanna live a healthy happy year, continue on the path I’ve been on and be with the person I care about.”

LiLo and Sam- sister of producer Mark- have been friends for years and have been spotted recently getting close.

A pal told The Mirror: “There is no one special in Lindsay’s life apart from Sam but it has taken her a while to feel like she can talk about the relationship.”

The couple have also been hanging around with Lily Allen while she was in LA and rumors suggest Lils and LiLo will now collaborate on some songs.

Will the lesbian community welcome Lindsay Lohan with arms wide open or is the bad-girl actress simply playing up the girl-on-girl action for some extra press attention after having laid-low for a while?

Cynthia Nixon to Marry Partner Christine Marinoni

I stumbled across an article that said a source had told the Enquirer that Cynthia Nixon has decided to settle down and marry her long-time girlfriend Christine Marinoni. I did a little research and started to notice the same headlines being run on this story: "Cynthia Nixon’s cancer scare sends her down the aisle", "Cancer Scare Sends Cynthia Nixon Down The Aisle", etc. You get the picture. After reading the same generic synopsis, I started to feel quite pissed off. In fact, I was ready to stand up and yell bullshit.

I kept reading the following recaps on the story:

Cynthia Nixon is making plans to `marry’ her partner Christine Marinoni after beating breast cancer. The Sex and the City star, 42, underwent surgery and six-and-a-half weeks of daily radiation treatment after she was diagnosed with the disease in 2006 - and the experience has prompted lesbian Nixon’s desire to cement her union to Marinoni with an official declaration of the couple’s commitment to one another.

Not only is "marry" put in quotes, like the word itself is compromised by its association with a gay couple, but the fact that anyone in their right mind would think that the only reason she wants to get married now is because she beat cancer, seems crazy!

Maybe I'm totally wrong here, but people usually get married out of their mutual love, respect and understanding of each other and the desire to translate that into a lifelong commitment and partnership. To say that a "cancer scare sends her down the aisle" is not only wrong, but its downright offensive to the obvious love and commitment they share for one other. It's not like Cynthia was all "Now that my cancer's gone, we can get married, but if it comes back, watch out!" It just seemed all a little melodramatic and downright silly, if you ask me. Plus, she was diagnosed with cancer in 2006, and had only just met Christine in 2004. Do you think maybe the timing just wasn't right or she wasn't quite ready?

Well that's all I had to say about that, these "headlines" just pissed me off, but Cynthia Nixon, if you're reading this, I am a HUGE fan (ever since your very first days on 'Sex and the City') and if you are planning to marry Christine, I wish you both all the happiness in the world because you deserve it.

P!nks Ends A Marriage, But Not A Friendship

I love P!nk, from her early days of singing "You Make Me Sick" and "Stupid Girls" to her touching open letter "Dear Mr. President" for George W. Bush. No matter what she's singing, she's always rocking out and having a good time.

P!nk has always had a plethora of lesbian fans. I remember my first P!nk concert in college, it was like lesbian heaven; I was surrounded by hot rocker chicks with nose rings and spiked hair, dancing half-naked and screaming P!nks name like porn stars in an orgy. It was HOT (and quite memorable too)!

The great thing about P!nk is that she's always been very open and accepting of all types of sexualities. She has stated on several occasions that she does not "like labels" when it comes to defining sexuality. In fact, she "believes we are all trisexuals". She has also admitted that she's had sexual relations with women in the past, and had a girlfriend when she was 14.



Despite her "trisexuality", Pink decided to take the heterosexual road and in 2005, proposed to motocross racer Carey Hart by doing his pit boarding and then asking him to marry her during one of his races in Mammoth Lakes, California by holding up a sign with "Will you marry me?" on it. After Hart read the sign, he almost caused an accident. They married in Costa Rica on January 7, 2006 at sunset.

Unfortunately, all good things (even good heterosexual things) must come to an end. Pink and Carey Hart have ended their marriage, as of Tuesday. The singer's publicist, Michele Schweitzer, confirmed the split, without giving any further details about the decision.

She told People.com: "Pink and Carey Hart have separated. This decision was made by best friends with a huge amount of love and respect for one another. While the marriage is over, their friendship has never been stronger." She has urged her fans to go easy on her estranged husband after announcing the couple had split up. She also insists she still loves Hart very much, and that the sportsman remains her best friend.

She also posted the following blog on her website on February 20th, stating:

Hi everybody. I wanted to reach out personally to all my fans/friends out there in the world. First and foremost, thank-you for all of your support and love, it means a lot to me right now. The most important thing for you all to know, is that Carey and I love each other so so much. This break up is not about cheating, anger, or fighting. I know it sounds like cliche bulls***, but we are best friends, and we will continue to be. All I know at this point, is that I want to make the best album I can, and Carey wants to do the best possible job he can with everything he has going on. He is a good man, so please support him as well. One never knows the future, but mine and Careys' just might involve beach babies and sunshine one day. Just not right now. Thanks for the concern and caring. X Miss P

I'm not sure what beach babies are, but they sound like a sweet prospect to me. Who knows what will happen for P!nks love life after this. Will she continue to date men or will she surprise us all and date a women? I think lesbians everywhere are crossing their fingers and holding their breath for a little P!nk on girl action, but whatever she does, I sincerely hope she is happy and continues making kickass music. Rock on, girl!

Penelope Cruz Kisses Her... Sister?!?!

There's a spanish music video which is causing quite a stir these days. It features some pretty racy scenes, including a porn-like scenario on a TV and two gorgeous women lusting after the lead singer/guitarist. The women, who have been acting pretty sensual, then kiss each other (and I don't mean on the cheek). So what's the big deal? The two sexy woman are Penelope and Monica Cruz and the lead singer is their brother, Eduardo Cruz. Apparently these guys like to keep it all in the family.

According to news sources, the lesbian lip-lock between the Spanish siblings was the idea of their brother Eduardo, who was obviously seeking controversial PR. The video also features Penelope parading her top-half assets. The video opens with Penelope and her sexy sister Monica sucking lollipops in school-girl inspired outfits before cavorting poolside in racy red swimsuits.

Penelope Cruz, who has been deemed as a classy and highly talented actress, is certainly pulling a shocker for this move, which some people are claiming will "kill her reputation". I think she's just letting the world know that she's got a little bit of bad-ass underneath that classy disposition and if she wants to do it by kissing her drop-dead gorgeous sister, I say "Amen, sista, amen".

Curious about the video? You can watch it here:


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